This last week I decided to go back to my Weight Watchers program. While I haven't been 100 percent faithful in tracking my food intake, I'm definitely seeing the results on the scale. In fact, I think with some exercise in the next couple of days, I may see a fairly dramatic weight loss on the scale at my weigh-in on Wednesday!
This weekend I participated in one of the greatest athletic events of this part of the country, the Hood to Coast relay. While I was not a participant in the form of a runner, I instead volunteered as part of a team that was formed by a friend from church. Over the last several months, he and his 11 teammates have been training for the relay in which each of them, over a period of 36 hours, runs 3 legs of 5-7 miles in length. Their journey begins at Mt. Hood, Oregon and ends in the small town of Seaside, along the Oregon coast. It is a BIG deal. Thousands try every year to sign up, and *only* 1700 teams are chosen.
I volunteered at one of the runner exchanges (in Mist, Oregon) and my assignment was to direct passing team vans into the parking lot. This gave me full view of the runner exchanges. The excitement and determination in the faces of the runners was enough to overshadow the sense of exhaustion they all must have felt. I spoke with several runners, all of whom were so friendly (not to mention extremely thankful for my service as a volunteer) and they simply inspired me. They've also helped me find a new, long term goal that has nothing to do with a number on the scale. My goal will be to train for my own relay team.
As much as I would love to be able to participate in the Hood to Coast relay, I'm afraid that I'm a long way from that. However, there is another relay which coincides with the the running relay: the Portland to Coast Walk. It's a very similar relay to the HtC relay, along the same route and at the same time, except it is at a much slower pace. In talking with several friends and family members, I've found several people who are interested in pursuing this as well. Thus, the greater challenge lies ahead: I need to get the team registered in October. The odds are against us as registration always fills up on opening day, and thousands are turned away. But we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Should we make it through registration, this is going to be a great way for me to get in shape. Much like having a parade to prepare for, this will force me to stay on task in the exercise department. More importantly, it will give me some major bragging rights once I've completed one of the world's most famous relays!
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Friday, August 12, 2011
Structure
A friend of ours visited last night and noticed that I had lost some weight. As good as it felt to hear her say that, I couldn't help but have a feeling of disappointment.
Over the last couple of weeks, I've really been "half-assing" my weight loss. I've only walked a couple times a week, and while I haven't been frequenting the drive-thrus, I haven't really been tracking my food intake like I should. I know that if I increased my walks and tracked my food, I'd be losing anywhere from 2-4 pounds a week. Instead, I'm losing about 1 to 1 1/2. That's still good, but it's hardly good enough.
During my friend's visit, we talked about changes we need to make to get our weight loss back on track. She made an admission that I had not seriously considered to be true for myself: she needs the discipline and structure of a weight loss program. We've both been very successful at losing weight when using programs like Weight Watchers and going to the gym. My partner and I are extremely financially strapped, so a gym membership is out. I'm okay with this as I live in a perfect neighborhood for walking, which is all the exercise one needs to lose weight. However, there is something to be said about being part of a program which holds you accountable to your weigh loss goals. With Weight Watchers, members report to meetings once a week where they are weighed in and then listen to and share weight loss tips in a group therapy session. I think those weekly weigh-ins are the kick in the pants my weight loss needs.
Next week, my plan is to attend my first meeting since the beginning of the year. Since I've been paying for a weight loss program that I haven't been using, it will thankfully not cost me anymore than it would otherwise! While I'm still within 6 pounds of my goal of 10 percent weight loss, my big goal now is to get under 300 pounds by my birthday, October 26. That means I need to lose 24 pounds in the next 11 weeks. With the discipline of a weight loss plan and my motivation to make this happen, I think that's completely doable. I've made a promise to myself to not be a 300 pound 36 year-old, and I plan on keeping that promise!
Over the last couple of weeks, I've really been "half-assing" my weight loss. I've only walked a couple times a week, and while I haven't been frequenting the drive-thrus, I haven't really been tracking my food intake like I should. I know that if I increased my walks and tracked my food, I'd be losing anywhere from 2-4 pounds a week. Instead, I'm losing about 1 to 1 1/2. That's still good, but it's hardly good enough.
During my friend's visit, we talked about changes we need to make to get our weight loss back on track. She made an admission that I had not seriously considered to be true for myself: she needs the discipline and structure of a weight loss program. We've both been very successful at losing weight when using programs like Weight Watchers and going to the gym. My partner and I are extremely financially strapped, so a gym membership is out. I'm okay with this as I live in a perfect neighborhood for walking, which is all the exercise one needs to lose weight. However, there is something to be said about being part of a program which holds you accountable to your weigh loss goals. With Weight Watchers, members report to meetings once a week where they are weighed in and then listen to and share weight loss tips in a group therapy session. I think those weekly weigh-ins are the kick in the pants my weight loss needs.
Next week, my plan is to attend my first meeting since the beginning of the year. Since I've been paying for a weight loss program that I haven't been using, it will thankfully not cost me anymore than it would otherwise! While I'm still within 6 pounds of my goal of 10 percent weight loss, my big goal now is to get under 300 pounds by my birthday, October 26. That means I need to lose 24 pounds in the next 11 weeks. With the discipline of a weight loss plan and my motivation to make this happen, I think that's completely doable. I've made a promise to myself to not be a 300 pound 36 year-old, and I plan on keeping that promise!
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Loss
For the last couple of years, my partner and I have been going through the process of losing our home. Yesterday, that process came to an end.
About 3 years ago, my partner was laid off from his position as a department manager at the W*orld's largest retail store W*hich shall rename nameless. After having W*orked there for nearly 9 years, he was given the pink slip and cut loose with an invitation to return to W*ork 30 days later, at minimum wage and W*ith no benefits (hopefully, you've gotten the clues by now as to which retailer I'm referring to!) Needless to say, he declined the offer to return, and we have since denied this retailer our patronage. If it wasn't bad enough, this lay off coincided with my need to leave my job so I could complete my student teaching and finish my graduate degree in teaching. My partner was able to receive unemployment, and I had family members who helped us financially. We also knew that once I finished my education, I'd receive a teaching certificate and and masters degree and be able to find work as a teacher and, thus, our financial problems would be solved. I took a risk and left my job to finish my education. In 2008.
As everyone who is alive knows, the last 3 years have been very difficult for those looking for work. This is true for those of us who are recent college grads as well. I have been trying to get a job as a full time middle or high school language arts or social studies teacher, but to no avail. Instead, I have had to rely on working as a substitute teacher, which brings home less than half the income I made working at my previous job. My partner has only been able to find part time employment. Thus, with our reduced income, our bills went unpaid, and our mortgage fell into default. Loan modifications were tried, but after 11 months of payments, we were denied based on supposedly missing paperwork. That's how a big bank functions: you give them a ton of money, and they refuse to work with you. Before we knew it, the bank was sending us warnings that we were over a year late on our mortgage payment, since our modification trial payments were less than our real mortgage payment. Foreclosure followed, at which time we started to look for a new place to live. In May we found a house to fit our needs and moved it, with the help of our friends. For months, our house has been listed as being auctioned off, only for the auction to be canceled. On July 29, the auction finally took place...with no bids, and the property went back to the bank.
Yesterday, I went to the old house to finish removing our property, knowing that we have 20 days to be out of there. When I pulled up to the drive way, I noticed that everything was gone. Curtains, flower pots, garbage....it was all missing. I tried unlocking the doors, but it was to no avail: the locks had been changed. I was locked out of my own house. A sign posted on the front window said to contact a realtor if interested in the property. After my partner got off work, he joined me at the old house. We took what little was left on the outside of the house that was ours, and bid our home of 14 years a final farewell.
Life is full of gains and losses. For my partner and I, the last several years have been full of losses. In the process of losing our home, I have made some poor choices in how I've handled it. In short, I've been extremely bitter about the whole mess. Yesterday, in the midst of trying to process the reality which was setting in, I found myself at our church walking our labyrinth. At the beginning of the path, there is a plaque welcoming people. I read that plaque and found words that are very comforting: "Remember to forgive...forgiveness is the key". As I walked that path, I had many thoughts about what I've lost. I had lost my job. My partner had lost his. We lost our financial means. We lost our insurance, and with it, our health care. We lost our retirement in trying to save our home. With my dad and his wife moving away, there is yet another loss. We had lost our cat to cancer. Our neighbor had just past away, so we lost her, too.
Then I started thinking about that quote: "forgiveness is the key." The key to what? I thought to myself. Happiness? Salvation? Eternal life, if there is such a thing? How could forgiveness possibly make this any better? It was then that I realized that it was my lack of forgiveness which has allowed me to become so bitter over the last few years. Did I have things to be bitter about? Absolutely. But what good comes from bitterness? What do I have to gain from feeling sorry for myself, and my partner, for all of the losses we have endured? Perhaps I've been focusing on the wrong stuff, here. When we focus on what we've lost, life can be a very dark place to exist. Instead, I started thinking about what we still have. We have our family. We have our friends. We have our church. We have our health. I have a renewed sense of getting healthy. We have our dog Lucy who loves us no matter where we live. We have each other.
If forgiveness is truly a key, then I have a new goal. It's certainly easy to be angry with a faceless bank for taking away our home, and it's very easy to be angry and resentful for people who are trying to destroy our family (a topic for another time). But I know for me, it has been easiest to look closer to home for placing blame and anger, bitterness and resentment. To begin achieving this new goal, I need to forgive that one person who I have been so angry at for allowing me to lose my home, lose my happiness, and become a 300+ pound overweight sloth. I need to look at this person square in the eyes and tell him "you're forgiven." And to find him, I need only look in the mirror.
About 3 years ago, my partner was laid off from his position as a department manager at the W*orld's largest retail store W*hich shall rename nameless. After having W*orked there for nearly 9 years, he was given the pink slip and cut loose with an invitation to return to W*ork 30 days later, at minimum wage and W*ith no benefits (hopefully, you've gotten the clues by now as to which retailer I'm referring to!) Needless to say, he declined the offer to return, and we have since denied this retailer our patronage. If it wasn't bad enough, this lay off coincided with my need to leave my job so I could complete my student teaching and finish my graduate degree in teaching. My partner was able to receive unemployment, and I had family members who helped us financially. We also knew that once I finished my education, I'd receive a teaching certificate and and masters degree and be able to find work as a teacher and, thus, our financial problems would be solved. I took a risk and left my job to finish my education. In 2008.
As everyone who is alive knows, the last 3 years have been very difficult for those looking for work. This is true for those of us who are recent college grads as well. I have been trying to get a job as a full time middle or high school language arts or social studies teacher, but to no avail. Instead, I have had to rely on working as a substitute teacher, which brings home less than half the income I made working at my previous job. My partner has only been able to find part time employment. Thus, with our reduced income, our bills went unpaid, and our mortgage fell into default. Loan modifications were tried, but after 11 months of payments, we were denied based on supposedly missing paperwork. That's how a big bank functions: you give them a ton of money, and they refuse to work with you. Before we knew it, the bank was sending us warnings that we were over a year late on our mortgage payment, since our modification trial payments were less than our real mortgage payment. Foreclosure followed, at which time we started to look for a new place to live. In May we found a house to fit our needs and moved it, with the help of our friends. For months, our house has been listed as being auctioned off, only for the auction to be canceled. On July 29, the auction finally took place...with no bids, and the property went back to the bank.
Yesterday, I went to the old house to finish removing our property, knowing that we have 20 days to be out of there. When I pulled up to the drive way, I noticed that everything was gone. Curtains, flower pots, garbage....it was all missing. I tried unlocking the doors, but it was to no avail: the locks had been changed. I was locked out of my own house. A sign posted on the front window said to contact a realtor if interested in the property. After my partner got off work, he joined me at the old house. We took what little was left on the outside of the house that was ours, and bid our home of 14 years a final farewell.
Life is full of gains and losses. For my partner and I, the last several years have been full of losses. In the process of losing our home, I have made some poor choices in how I've handled it. In short, I've been extremely bitter about the whole mess. Yesterday, in the midst of trying to process the reality which was setting in, I found myself at our church walking our labyrinth. At the beginning of the path, there is a plaque welcoming people. I read that plaque and found words that are very comforting: "Remember to forgive...forgiveness is the key". As I walked that path, I had many thoughts about what I've lost. I had lost my job. My partner had lost his. We lost our financial means. We lost our insurance, and with it, our health care. We lost our retirement in trying to save our home. With my dad and his wife moving away, there is yet another loss. We had lost our cat to cancer. Our neighbor had just past away, so we lost her, too.
Then I started thinking about that quote: "forgiveness is the key." The key to what? I thought to myself. Happiness? Salvation? Eternal life, if there is such a thing? How could forgiveness possibly make this any better? It was then that I realized that it was my lack of forgiveness which has allowed me to become so bitter over the last few years. Did I have things to be bitter about? Absolutely. But what good comes from bitterness? What do I have to gain from feeling sorry for myself, and my partner, for all of the losses we have endured? Perhaps I've been focusing on the wrong stuff, here. When we focus on what we've lost, life can be a very dark place to exist. Instead, I started thinking about what we still have. We have our family. We have our friends. We have our church. We have our health. I have a renewed sense of getting healthy. We have our dog Lucy who loves us no matter where we live. We have each other.
If forgiveness is truly a key, then I have a new goal. It's certainly easy to be angry with a faceless bank for taking away our home, and it's very easy to be angry and resentful for people who are trying to destroy our family (a topic for another time). But I know for me, it has been easiest to look closer to home for placing blame and anger, bitterness and resentment. To begin achieving this new goal, I need to forgive that one person who I have been so angry at for allowing me to lose my home, lose my happiness, and become a 300+ pound overweight sloth. I need to look at this person square in the eyes and tell him "you're forgiven." And to find him, I need only look in the mirror.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
The call from the bed...
No, this isn't a blog about some lurid encounter we had in our bed. This isn't that kind of blog! :)
This morning I woke up with my husband around 6:15. After I pondered whether or not I'd get up, I decided to join the land of the living, or at least the land of those who are living at 6:15 in the morning. I figured if I really wasn't ready to get up, I could always go back to bed. I ate a little breakfast, watched some news, kissed my husband goodbye as he left for work, and then plopped down on the couch and waited for some burst of energy or inspiration to get me to start my day. Before I knew it, I was yawning and I could hear the faint calling of my bed waiting for me to return.
When I started toward my bedroom, I instantly felt like I was giving in to something that wasn't right. Then my body continued on its own, and before I knew it, I had my walking shorts and shoes on, my dog leash and iPod in hand, and Lucy and I were out the door and on our way to make our 3.5 mile walk. It's a choice that I'm very glad I made.
If you find that you are having a sleepy morning, take a walk. There is nothing more energizing and sleep-fighting than going out for a brisk walk on a beautiful summer morning, especially if you have a four-legged companion along for the journey. Your companion will thank you now, and you'll thank yourself later once you see the difference on the scale and the waistline.
This morning I woke up with my husband around 6:15. After I pondered whether or not I'd get up, I decided to join the land of the living, or at least the land of those who are living at 6:15 in the morning. I figured if I really wasn't ready to get up, I could always go back to bed. I ate a little breakfast, watched some news, kissed my husband goodbye as he left for work, and then plopped down on the couch and waited for some burst of energy or inspiration to get me to start my day. Before I knew it, I was yawning and I could hear the faint calling of my bed waiting for me to return.
When I started toward my bedroom, I instantly felt like I was giving in to something that wasn't right. Then my body continued on its own, and before I knew it, I had my walking shorts and shoes on, my dog leash and iPod in hand, and Lucy and I were out the door and on our way to make our 3.5 mile walk. It's a choice that I'm very glad I made.
If you find that you are having a sleepy morning, take a walk. There is nothing more energizing and sleep-fighting than going out for a brisk walk on a beautiful summer morning, especially if you have a four-legged companion along for the journey. Your companion will thank you now, and you'll thank yourself later once you see the difference on the scale and the waistline.
Monday, August 1, 2011
Back to the grind
Home from a vacation. If there were a list of challenging times for us weight-loss trekkers, this would be near the top of that list!
We arrived home last night from beautiful Wenatchee, Washington after a 5 1/2 hour car drive. It was a beautiful drive, even made more so that we chose to take a more scenic route through some of the prettier parts of our homeland. Our two boys slept much of the way, but kept themselves occupied by coloring in their activity books (which my partner so lovingly and creatively put together for them!). Knowing we just wanted to get the kids into bed when we got home, we hit a drive thru, picked up a couple of gay "meals", a burger and fries for the grown ups, and headed home. It was the first drive thru burger and fries I've had in a while, and I loved them. I loved them so much that I'm actually craving some of those golden-fried, crunchy and salty goodness even as I write this.
Which leads me to my point for today's blog post: getting back on track. As I mentioned in my last journal entry I decided to let my guard down when it came to my weight loss regimen this last weekend, knowing full well that I would have to pick up the torch and continue the journey Monday morning. Well, it's Monday morning and my taste buds are craving all that same food I satisfied myself with this last weekend, including (and most especially) those damned french fries from the drive thru. Alas, I'm having unhealthy cravings.
I suppose everyone has a craving for unhealthy foods. I used to think we weight-loss trekkers have them more than those damned skinny people, but I think that's a myth we like to tell ourselves to make our giving in to those cravings all that much easier. Rather, instead of having stronger cravings, we simply come up with any excuse to give in, leaving our poor brains so warped up in mind games that we bury our guilt when we finally dive into that food which is ever so tasty, and ever so unhealthy. My challenge this week is going to be to not even listen to those cravings. Giving them an ear is what got me into trouble, and if I'm serious about losing weight, I must take control over those cravings. After all, I refuse to let my health and my life be dictated to by a burger wrapped in a yellow paper.
My goal this week is to track all of my food and walk 3.5 miles on 5 out of 7 days. I missed my weight loss goal of hitting 10 percent by the reunion, so I want to hit that within the next two weeks. Once I do that, I'll have 19 pounds to lose in order to cross back over that 300 pound threshold, a goal worth giving up all the fries in the world for.
We arrived home last night from beautiful Wenatchee, Washington after a 5 1/2 hour car drive. It was a beautiful drive, even made more so that we chose to take a more scenic route through some of the prettier parts of our homeland. Our two boys slept much of the way, but kept themselves occupied by coloring in their activity books (which my partner so lovingly and creatively put together for them!). Knowing we just wanted to get the kids into bed when we got home, we hit a drive thru, picked up a couple of gay "meals", a burger and fries for the grown ups, and headed home. It was the first drive thru burger and fries I've had in a while, and I loved them. I loved them so much that I'm actually craving some of those golden-fried, crunchy and salty goodness even as I write this.
Which leads me to my point for today's blog post: getting back on track. As I mentioned in my last journal entry I decided to let my guard down when it came to my weight loss regimen this last weekend, knowing full well that I would have to pick up the torch and continue the journey Monday morning. Well, it's Monday morning and my taste buds are craving all that same food I satisfied myself with this last weekend, including (and most especially) those damned french fries from the drive thru. Alas, I'm having unhealthy cravings.
I suppose everyone has a craving for unhealthy foods. I used to think we weight-loss trekkers have them more than those damned skinny people, but I think that's a myth we like to tell ourselves to make our giving in to those cravings all that much easier. Rather, instead of having stronger cravings, we simply come up with any excuse to give in, leaving our poor brains so warped up in mind games that we bury our guilt when we finally dive into that food which is ever so tasty, and ever so unhealthy. My challenge this week is going to be to not even listen to those cravings. Giving them an ear is what got me into trouble, and if I'm serious about losing weight, I must take control over those cravings. After all, I refuse to let my health and my life be dictated to by a burger wrapped in a yellow paper.
My goal this week is to track all of my food and walk 3.5 miles on 5 out of 7 days. I missed my weight loss goal of hitting 10 percent by the reunion, so I want to hit that within the next two weeks. Once I do that, I'll have 19 pounds to lose in order to cross back over that 300 pound threshold, a goal worth giving up all the fries in the world for.
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Vacations
Today's blog is coming to you from beautiful Wenatchee, Washington where we are attending a family reunion. It's an annual event that I look forward to, to see old faces and meet new ones. Of course, it's also a great chance to eat some home cooking and just relax for a few days. In other words, it's a very weightloss-unfriendly vacation!
Vacationing while going through a weightloss can be a very stressful experience for some. I've often seen people who follow diet programs stick with them throught their vacations. I applaud their efforts and the accomplishments, but I often wonder if the stress that I see them endure makes the effort worth it.
I've decided a different approach to weight loss and vacationing. In my mind, a vacation does not only mean relaxing the body but alos relaxing the mind. In other words, I have no problem with taking a break from my weightloss journey while on a vacation. I'm not tracking my food, nor am I exercising. While this will obviously lead to a little weight gain, I've already excepted the consequences of my actions and, come Monday, I will get right back on track. I'm already looking forward to reaching my next goal (losing 10 percent) and my goal this coming week is to really push myself and cross that threshold. But that's something I'm going to worry about on Monday! :)
Does this mean that I've totally abandoned my new lifestyle? Nope. At a family reunion there seems to be an abundance of cookies and sweets, which I've successfully avoided. While driving, we had the foresight to pack a picnic lunch and stick to eating what we broght with us, and not snacks from the gas station. But, there are some unhealthy meals in my immediate future. My brother in law works at a burger hop called Dusty's In and Out, which serves some of the sloppiest burgers I've ever seen. I'll be eating one of those for certain, although I may consider skipping the fries as one does not really feel like loading upon grease when it's 95 degrees outside!
So that's how I'm handling vacation. Now if you'll excuse me, my vacation awaits!
Vacationing while going through a weightloss can be a very stressful experience for some. I've often seen people who follow diet programs stick with them throught their vacations. I applaud their efforts and the accomplishments, but I often wonder if the stress that I see them endure makes the effort worth it.
I've decided a different approach to weight loss and vacationing. In my mind, a vacation does not only mean relaxing the body but alos relaxing the mind. In other words, I have no problem with taking a break from my weightloss journey while on a vacation. I'm not tracking my food, nor am I exercising. While this will obviously lead to a little weight gain, I've already excepted the consequences of my actions and, come Monday, I will get right back on track. I'm already looking forward to reaching my next goal (losing 10 percent) and my goal this coming week is to really push myself and cross that threshold. But that's something I'm going to worry about on Monday! :)
Does this mean that I've totally abandoned my new lifestyle? Nope. At a family reunion there seems to be an abundance of cookies and sweets, which I've successfully avoided. While driving, we had the foresight to pack a picnic lunch and stick to eating what we broght with us, and not snacks from the gas station. But, there are some unhealthy meals in my immediate future. My brother in law works at a burger hop called Dusty's In and Out, which serves some of the sloppiest burgers I've ever seen. I'll be eating one of those for certain, although I may consider skipping the fries as one does not really feel like loading upon grease when it's 95 degrees outside!
So that's how I'm handling vacation. Now if you'll excuse me, my vacation awaits!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Of recovery and little helpers
Today's been one of those days where my body just refused to get going. I headed out for my 3.5 mile walk this morning (having skipped yesterday) and something just didn't feel right. The entire first mile, my body just felt...tired. My calves, quads, and lower back were still achy from Aldridge Butte, and I just felt like I had no energy. The entire first mile felt like a struggle, as if I've never walked so long in my life.
This is where I've noticed a change in my approach to this weight loss. In previous attempts at weight loss, I'd use any excuse to shorten or outright quit an exercise routine. Now, I've been really trying to stay focused on my goals rather than how tired or achy I feel. It's a mindset that he definitely helped me through this weight loss journey. Today, after that first mile I realized that my body actually was waking up. I had energy, I was breaking a sweat, and my achy muscles felt much better. I finished all 3.5 miles and headed home.
I decided to stretch my legs afterwards, so I sat on the floor, put one leg back and one leg forward and tried to reach my toes. I could feel all of those previously achy muscles stretching, and it felt great. When The Boys walked in and saw me, Oldest Boy asked me "whatcha doing, daddy?" I told him I was stretching, and trying to touch my toes. At this point, he grabbed my hand and tried pulling me so I could reach my toes. For the first time in years, I was actually able to touch them while sitting in this position, with the help of The Boys of course! I guess losing weight really is a group effort. :)
As I write this, I can feel energy flowing through my body and it feels great. Before I would have thrown in the towel and beaten myself up over it. Today, I feel like I've accomplished something. Not only did I finish my walk, but I got The Boys involved in my weight loss. While they are only 3 and 4 and don't really understand the reasoning behind what I'm doing, they can obviously tell that it's important to me, and they love to be little helpers. With so much enthusiasm, how can I possibly fail in this weight loss journey?
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Physical Challenges
When I was a kid, I used to watch a children's game show called "Double Dare" in which two teams of kids would take turns answering trivia questions. Sometimes, a team would get stumped and would pass their question to their opposing team by saying "dare". If the opposing team didn't know the answer, they would reply "double dare", at which point the original team could take a guess or perform a "physical challenge". The physical challenge was usually some sort of trick they had to perform in a few seconds, like try and land a checker on a checker board that is attached to your partner's head. Or they could be really gross, like having to dive face first and blindfolded into a bowl of whip cream, looking for a teething ring. Sounds kinda silly today, but as a kid I loved it!
I've noticed that many people who are in shape typically surround themselves with physical challenges. Whether it's riding a bike over a long distance, mountain climbing, or parachuting, many people in shape simply have a great time with their bodies. They are able to use them and do something they truly enjoy doing. Weighing over 300 pounds has been an excuse for me to not enjoy such things. Over the years, my hobbies have been more sedentary than active. Being a movie fan, I love sitting on my couch watching films. I also have a love for building plastic model kits, especially those which are science fiction in nature. Again, as much fun as these activities are for me, they don't exactly have any physical health benefits.
For a while I've considered getting more involved in activities which will help me get my body moving. Our church has an hiking group in which people get together and hike one of the countless trails we have in the Pacific Northwest. I was invited to join in on the latest hike yesterday and, with serious reservations, I accepted. I've been wanting to find ways to be more active, and hiking is something I've never really done as an adult. Of course my main concern was "can I do this?" The trail was going to take us to Aldridge Butte, a little-known area in the Columbia River Gorge. I did some research on this trail and found that it was a 3.2 mile round trip trail, listed as easy-moderate. Knowing full well that "easy-moderate" was a score not generated with a 320 pound person in mind, I braced myself for the very real possibility that I was not going to be able to overcome this physical challenge. When we parked at the bottom of the gorge and I looked up to see where we were going, I realized this was going to be a hell of a steep climb, something I wasn't remotely used to. Nevertheless, I psyched myself up and I was determined to get to the top.
We had to walk up a gravel road just to get to the trail head, and by that point I was already breathing heavily. The trail itself was completely shaded by trees, but that didn't matter to my body which was producing so much sweat that my entire shirt, sleeves and all, was soaked. By about 1/3 of the way up the trail, I looked like I had taken a shower with my clothes on. Did I mention that not another single person in our group even broke a sweat? About 3/4 of the way up the trail, our climb went from moderately steep to very steep. I pushed and pushed and pushed as much as I could. Every time I looked ahead and saw more trail, I'd hear a voice say "is it much farther Papa Smurf?" It was about this point that someone in our group shared with me the secret of a hike: don't focus on the past or the future, but focus on the here and now. With that in mind, my exhausted self focused on whatever it could. The trees. The sounds of the birds. The back of the shoes of the person walking in front of me. The rocks I was walking over. An hour later after we started, we reached our destination.
My God, I had never seen such a sight. The Columbia River Gorge is a place I have been many, many times in my life. I thought I had seen it all. But all of the views I have ever seen were achieved through the action of driving to viewing points. Suddenly, after spending an hour breathing so hard that my lungs hurt, I was looking at a site that had never looked so awesome. With all of the sweat in my clothes, the bug spray trying to drip into my eyes, and the achy muscles I had all over my body, I felt more exhilarated than I had felt in years. I looked out onto the beautiful canyon below which stretched for miles and miles in both directions for what felt like the first time. My friend Lynn asked me how I was doing, and I turned to her with what must have been a big-ass grin on my face and said, "I did this." Afterwards, we posed for pictures, noticed how tiny our cars looked from our vantage point, and then spent the next 40 minutes hiking our way back down to them.
For the rest of the day, I was glowing. I also felt challenged. I immediately decided that one day, perhaps when I've dropped another 50 pounds, I will return to this same trail and see if I can do it better. For now, I'll continue to bask in the fact that I climbed 1100 feet in just over 1 1/2 miles in one hour, and I didn't quit. And I conquered a great physical challenge.
I've noticed that many people who are in shape typically surround themselves with physical challenges. Whether it's riding a bike over a long distance, mountain climbing, or parachuting, many people in shape simply have a great time with their bodies. They are able to use them and do something they truly enjoy doing. Weighing over 300 pounds has been an excuse for me to not enjoy such things. Over the years, my hobbies have been more sedentary than active. Being a movie fan, I love sitting on my couch watching films. I also have a love for building plastic model kits, especially those which are science fiction in nature. Again, as much fun as these activities are for me, they don't exactly have any physical health benefits.
For a while I've considered getting more involved in activities which will help me get my body moving. Our church has an hiking group in which people get together and hike one of the countless trails we have in the Pacific Northwest. I was invited to join in on the latest hike yesterday and, with serious reservations, I accepted. I've been wanting to find ways to be more active, and hiking is something I've never really done as an adult. Of course my main concern was "can I do this?" The trail was going to take us to Aldridge Butte, a little-known area in the Columbia River Gorge. I did some research on this trail and found that it was a 3.2 mile round trip trail, listed as easy-moderate. Knowing full well that "easy-moderate" was a score not generated with a 320 pound person in mind, I braced myself for the very real possibility that I was not going to be able to overcome this physical challenge. When we parked at the bottom of the gorge and I looked up to see where we were going, I realized this was going to be a hell of a steep climb, something I wasn't remotely used to. Nevertheless, I psyched myself up and I was determined to get to the top.
We had to walk up a gravel road just to get to the trail head, and by that point I was already breathing heavily. The trail itself was completely shaded by trees, but that didn't matter to my body which was producing so much sweat that my entire shirt, sleeves and all, was soaked. By about 1/3 of the way up the trail, I looked like I had taken a shower with my clothes on. Did I mention that not another single person in our group even broke a sweat? About 3/4 of the way up the trail, our climb went from moderately steep to very steep. I pushed and pushed and pushed as much as I could. Every time I looked ahead and saw more trail, I'd hear a voice say "is it much farther Papa Smurf?" It was about this point that someone in our group shared with me the secret of a hike: don't focus on the past or the future, but focus on the here and now. With that in mind, my exhausted self focused on whatever it could. The trees. The sounds of the birds. The back of the shoes of the person walking in front of me. The rocks I was walking over. An hour later after we started, we reached our destination.
My God, I had never seen such a sight. The Columbia River Gorge is a place I have been many, many times in my life. I thought I had seen it all. But all of the views I have ever seen were achieved through the action of driving to viewing points. Suddenly, after spending an hour breathing so hard that my lungs hurt, I was looking at a site that had never looked so awesome. With all of the sweat in my clothes, the bug spray trying to drip into my eyes, and the achy muscles I had all over my body, I felt more exhilarated than I had felt in years. I looked out onto the beautiful canyon below which stretched for miles and miles in both directions for what felt like the first time. My friend Lynn asked me how I was doing, and I turned to her with what must have been a big-ass grin on my face and said, "I did this." Afterwards, we posed for pictures, noticed how tiny our cars looked from our vantage point, and then spent the next 40 minutes hiking our way back down to them.
For the rest of the day, I was glowing. I also felt challenged. I immediately decided that one day, perhaps when I've dropped another 50 pounds, I will return to this same trail and see if I can do it better. For now, I'll continue to bask in the fact that I climbed 1100 feet in just over 1 1/2 miles in one hour, and I didn't quit. And I conquered a great physical challenge.
Monday, July 18, 2011
"Wii weight"
For the first time in the several years I have owned it, I was able to use my Wii Fit!
My partner and I purchased a Wii Fit with the hope that it would be a fun addition to our "home entertainment" as well giving us the benefit of losing a few pounds. When we purchased it, I was certainly realistic about any positive health benefits it might bring to us. I mean, seriously, how can a video game be a factor of any kind in the process of losing weight. Nonetheless, we brought it home, unpacked it, and plugged it in. I remember the first time I saw the Wii Fit program on our TV, and how cute we thought the little animated Wii board was, especially how it reacted when people would stand on its real world doppelganger.
My first experience with the Wii Fit was not a happy one. Knowing that it would measure my weight, I stepped on it a little embarassed about what it might tell me. Trying to hold my large frame on the piece of plastic, I focused on the screen and saw...nothing. The program was telling me there was an error, and to step off and try again. Like a good little Wii-Fit-workout-buddy, I followed the directions. Again, nothing. My partner decided to give it a try and, after he stepped on it, the game told him his exact weight. Seeing this, and after traveling to my office and consulting the metallic box of all knowledge, known as the Internet, I confirmed a fear I had: I was too heavy to play the Wii Fit. The program had a weight limit of 330 pounds, and I knew that I was somewhere in the 350 range.
At first, I was pissed. I was really pissed! How could a product which was obviously designed to help people lose weight in their living rooms have such a ridiculous design flaw? What were they thinking? As time went on, my partner and a friend of ours would play the different balancing and aerobic games, and had fun doing so, all the while I sat on the couch and pouted like Ralphie holding a C+. Yes, we were eventually able to fool the game and allow me to play, but I could never have an accurate profile which would track my weight or BMI. I decided right then that one day, I was going to cross the threshold of 330, which I had labeled my "Wii Weight" and be able to play the game. It was a goal. It was a SILLY goal, but goals are great to have in life, especially when trying to lose weight.
This morning, I stepped on the scale (something I wasn't supposed to do!) and discovered that I was down to 327.2 pounds. Feeling that was safely under 330, I decided to dust off the Wii Fit board and try it out. I plugged in my profile, and went through the endless prompts to set up my Wii Fit Profile. Then, it asked me to step on. "Measuring..." it said as I held my breath. After whispering "anything but Slytherin, anything by Slytherin" over and over to myself for what seemed like an eternity, the game told me something I've waited years to see. It had measured my weight! I had officially reached my Wii Weight and, as an added bonus, I had 5 pounds to spare!
The Wii Fit finished setting up my profile and plotted a point on a graph as a starting point for my weight loss. It will be fun tracking my weight loss on a video game! I spent the next half hour playing the various games, and even working up a tiny bit of sweat before having to quit so I could fulfill my obligations I have for the rest of the day.
So I guess the moral here is, don't just have typical goals for yourself while trying to lose weight. Throw some fun and silly goals in their too. Try to associate numbers on a scale with something other than your weight. Sure, it's all a mind game in the end, but it's a positive mind game which is very helpful to fight back the more negative mind games that we play to talk ourselves out of trying to lose weight.
So what's your silly weight loss goal?
My partner and I purchased a Wii Fit with the hope that it would be a fun addition to our "home entertainment" as well giving us the benefit of losing a few pounds. When we purchased it, I was certainly realistic about any positive health benefits it might bring to us. I mean, seriously, how can a video game be a factor of any kind in the process of losing weight. Nonetheless, we brought it home, unpacked it, and plugged it in. I remember the first time I saw the Wii Fit program on our TV, and how cute we thought the little animated Wii board was, especially how it reacted when people would stand on its real world doppelganger.
My first experience with the Wii Fit was not a happy one. Knowing that it would measure my weight, I stepped on it a little embarassed about what it might tell me. Trying to hold my large frame on the piece of plastic, I focused on the screen and saw...nothing. The program was telling me there was an error, and to step off and try again. Like a good little Wii-Fit-workout-buddy, I followed the directions. Again, nothing. My partner decided to give it a try and, after he stepped on it, the game told him his exact weight. Seeing this, and after traveling to my office and consulting the metallic box of all knowledge, known as the Internet, I confirmed a fear I had: I was too heavy to play the Wii Fit. The program had a weight limit of 330 pounds, and I knew that I was somewhere in the 350 range.
At first, I was pissed. I was really pissed! How could a product which was obviously designed to help people lose weight in their living rooms have such a ridiculous design flaw? What were they thinking? As time went on, my partner and a friend of ours would play the different balancing and aerobic games, and had fun doing so, all the while I sat on the couch and pouted like Ralphie holding a C+. Yes, we were eventually able to fool the game and allow me to play, but I could never have an accurate profile which would track my weight or BMI. I decided right then that one day, I was going to cross the threshold of 330, which I had labeled my "Wii Weight" and be able to play the game. It was a goal. It was a SILLY goal, but goals are great to have in life, especially when trying to lose weight.
This morning, I stepped on the scale (something I wasn't supposed to do!) and discovered that I was down to 327.2 pounds. Feeling that was safely under 330, I decided to dust off the Wii Fit board and try it out. I plugged in my profile, and went through the endless prompts to set up my Wii Fit Profile. Then, it asked me to step on. "Measuring..." it said as I held my breath. After whispering "anything but Slytherin, anything by Slytherin" over and over to myself for what seemed like an eternity, the game told me something I've waited years to see. It had measured my weight! I had officially reached my Wii Weight and, as an added bonus, I had 5 pounds to spare!
The Wii Fit finished setting up my profile and plotted a point on a graph as a starting point for my weight loss. It will be fun tracking my weight loss on a video game! I spent the next half hour playing the various games, and even working up a tiny bit of sweat before having to quit so I could fulfill my obligations I have for the rest of the day.
So I guess the moral here is, don't just have typical goals for yourself while trying to lose weight. Throw some fun and silly goals in their too. Try to associate numbers on a scale with something other than your weight. Sure, it's all a mind game in the end, but it's a positive mind game which is very helpful to fight back the more negative mind games that we play to talk ourselves out of trying to lose weight.
So what's your silly weight loss goal?
Friday, July 15, 2011
330.8
This morning, my scale said I haven't lost any weight in the last week. While I'm disappointed by the number, I'd be less than honest with myself if I said I was surprised.
While I've been exercising and, with the exception of a milkshake have also avoided dining out, I have not been tracking my food intake. They say that weight loss is 20% exercise, 80% diet. I now have proof that this is correct. As a former Weight Watcher, I'm very familiar with the process of tracking food. Given the online tools available, it's certainly easy enough to start tracking. Indeed, this last week I did start tracking. However, I was very inconsistent. I tracked 2 things, both of them breakfast. Not gonna lose weight if I track 2 meals out of a whole week!
So, that's what I need to work on this week. "Write it if I bite it" is a great saying I picked up at a WW meeting. That program does work, as long as I work at keeping honest with my intake. This brings up a great point: honesty. For those of us who struggle with weight loss, there is no quicker route to defeat than by being dishonest with ourselves. You know what I'm talking about. For instance, when having a 1/2 cup serving of ice cream, how easy is it for us to look at a full bowl of the frozen, creamy, dairy deliciousness and convince ourselves that we could, if forced to, pack that bowl of ice cream into a 1/2 measuring cup? So instead of eating the 180 calorie dessert we KNOW we're eating, we're consuming about 2 or 3 servings in one bowl! It is so easy to get into these little mind games, which is why I fail to see the point in trying to lose weight if we aren't honest with ourselves first. The funny thing is, we can lie to ourselves, but the scale always tells the truth!
This week, my goal is to track everything. My goal is to also get in at least 3 walks over 2 miles, while putting in 30 minutes all other days. This is probably a little too much for me to do in one week, but I really want to lose another 10 pounds in the next 15 days (is that even possible?!). If I can't make that goal, at the very least I will be comfortably out of the 330s, never to return!
While I've been exercising and, with the exception of a milkshake have also avoided dining out, I have not been tracking my food intake. They say that weight loss is 20% exercise, 80% diet. I now have proof that this is correct. As a former Weight Watcher, I'm very familiar with the process of tracking food. Given the online tools available, it's certainly easy enough to start tracking. Indeed, this last week I did start tracking. However, I was very inconsistent. I tracked 2 things, both of them breakfast. Not gonna lose weight if I track 2 meals out of a whole week!
So, that's what I need to work on this week. "Write it if I bite it" is a great saying I picked up at a WW meeting. That program does work, as long as I work at keeping honest with my intake. This brings up a great point: honesty. For those of us who struggle with weight loss, there is no quicker route to defeat than by being dishonest with ourselves. You know what I'm talking about. For instance, when having a 1/2 cup serving of ice cream, how easy is it for us to look at a full bowl of the frozen, creamy, dairy deliciousness and convince ourselves that we could, if forced to, pack that bowl of ice cream into a 1/2 measuring cup? So instead of eating the 180 calorie dessert we KNOW we're eating, we're consuming about 2 or 3 servings in one bowl! It is so easy to get into these little mind games, which is why I fail to see the point in trying to lose weight if we aren't honest with ourselves first. The funny thing is, we can lie to ourselves, but the scale always tells the truth!
This week, my goal is to track everything. My goal is to also get in at least 3 walks over 2 miles, while putting in 30 minutes all other days. This is probably a little too much for me to do in one week, but I really want to lose another 10 pounds in the next 15 days (is that even possible?!). If I can't make that goal, at the very least I will be comfortably out of the 330s, never to return!
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
And the journey continues, on foot...
It's been over a year since my last post, and my weight loss attempts all but stalled in that time. Until now...
Allow me to explain how I got to where I am now. A few weeks ago I participated in the Portland Rose Festival Character Clown Corps. Yep, I'm a clown! The main event of the Portland Rose Festival is the Grand Floral Parade, a 4 1/2 mile walk from the Memorial Coliseum, over a bridge, and through downtown Portland. Knowing that I had this physical challenge ahead of me, I decided to start walking around my neighborhood to get my legs out of their state of near-atrophy! Then, something amazing happened: I discovered I liked going out for walks! What I liked more was how I felt after I was done. I felt energized, awake, and alive. What a great feeling!
The day of the parade came, and I conquered it! While I definitely felt tired at the end, and my feet were sore from pounding the pavement with nothing but Converse between them and asphalt, the feelings of near-death that I had dreaded never came.
After the parade, I watched the televised highlights and had the shock of a life time. There I was for all the world to see and in high-definition. A 337 pound clown, huge, wobbling, and waddling across the street. Worse, I was surrounded by a plethora of skinny, fit people. I was the elephant in the room. I've seen pictures of myself before with similar feelings, but this felt even worse. On my face you can tell I'm having the time of my life, but everything below my face said that my life was going to be cut short because I am very unhealthy.
Not long after, I stood on the bathroom scale and had another shock. The renewed activity in my life had a very positive impact. I had lost 5 pounds. Ok, so 5 pounds is not a lot for someone living in the 330s, but for me that was huge. I hadn't been dieting, and I really hadn't even been exercising. I had just been walking and trying to get this body ready for a 4 1/2 mile walk. Then it hit me like a perfect storm: if I want to live, I need to walk.
So walking I've been. My partner and I recently moved into a neighborhood not more than a half-mile from a middle school with a track and a mile-long cross country trail. I decided that I no longer had any excuses, so I put on my shoes and went walking. Two weeks ago, I set out a goal: walk every night. Mission accomplished. The next week I managed to get in three walks. So far this week, I've managed to get in one (with another coming following my publishing this blog). I found that I really enjoy walking the cross country trail, and yesterday I managed to walk it 3 times. Since I walk to and from the school, that's nearly 4 miles of walking!
So, that's where I am. The scale last week told me I no longer weigh in the 330s. For the first time in 5 years I'm in the 320s, which for me is huge. I have a goal to be at 318 by the end of the month. It's ambitious, but I know I can make that happen. Why 318? Two years ago, I was at my heaviest weight: 353. By month end I hope to have lost 10 percent of my weight, which will put me at 318.
So that's where I'm at. I've been wanting to journal my weight loss and I can't think of a better way to do so than to blog it. With that in mind, these blogs will be much more frequent than before. Stay tuned!
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